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Paul Stolte Obituary


Paul Phillip Stolte died peacefully at home May 24, 2022 following an almost 5-year battle with brain cancer, his husband of 24 years at his side.
Having left the world of business behind, Paul made a dramatic shift toward decades as a ceramic sculptor. His work now graces homes across the country. His intellect, humor, eye for detail and an ever-ready truck are sorely missed by family and friends.
He was preceded in death by his father, Paul, Sr. He is survived by Mark Winterman, husband; Caroline, mother; sisters Sharon and Darlene; father-in-law Bernard; sister-in-law Jodi; nieces Lexi, Andrea, Nina, Lisa, Michelle, Adrienne, nephew Joey; a number of great nieces and nephews.
Donations can be made to Kaiser Permanente Hospice: 10990 San Diego Mission Road, San Diego, CA 92108.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Jun. 19, 2022.

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Robert M. Smith

June 15, 2025

Dear Mark, how very strange the way life is. I just went Paul's website to see if he produced any more 'Weary' figures. I enjoyed bumping into you and Paul at that art opening in Pacific Beach so many years ago. I am so sorry for your loss, Mark. Twenty four years is long time. May God be with you.

Marilynn

April 25, 2025

I just an hr ago learned that Paul passed and my heart sank. Circumstances were such that we lost touch after many yrs of a good friendship. To you , Mark, my heart is with you. He made such an impression on those he met. Marilynn

Evelyn Lulis

October 2, 2024

Still miss you very much my dear friend. The world was a better place when you were in it.

Linda Durant

May 25, 2024

Hello to Paul's loved ones. I think of him so often and miss him very much. I looked at some pictures on May 24th and they made me smile. He was such a gem. Always in my heart.

Darlene Barajas

May 25, 2024

My sweet brother, 2 years since you have gone. Still miss you very much. Love you, your little sister

Mark Cordeiro

May 24, 2024

I was thinking about Paul TODAY and thought I would reach out since it's been years since we talked. I'm so very saddened to hear of his passing. I'm realizing now that I am finding this out exactly two years after his passing. Today is May 24, 2024. Paul was so loving and kind. Funny and such a talented artist. We met in the Bay Area when I was in my early 20s and he was in his early 30s. Mark, I'm so sorry for your loss. Much love to you and I'm sure you have many years of wonderful memories. Without a doubt Paul was one-of-a-kind.

Linda Durant

December 14, 2023

Paul's spirit is present with our memories. I wish everyone the best thoughts and encourage doing an art project in his honor during the holiday season. I miss him very much. Love to Mark and family.

Pamela Cortelyou

December 12, 2023

I connected with Paul because he was an artist. I loved his whimsical and very original work. I love talking to his husband Mark, who I wish the best in this holiday season. Pamela

Linda A Durant

June 15, 2023

On the anniversary of Paul's death, I planted a flower pot that he gave me. Beautiful dahlias remind me of him each day. I miss him very much. Sending love to Mark and the family. He is with us all.

Linda Durant

July 9, 2022

I met Paul in 1981 and was lucky to have him as my good friend for all these years.He was so smart, talented and so funny. I knew Mark was the one for him upon meeting him. Such a beautiful pair! I miss Paul every day but his inspiration and all the reminders through his art in my home will make me smile through the tears. Much love to Mark and the family.

Darlene

July 6, 2022

My brother and you were a very special couple together. Thank you for taking such wonderful care of him. Sending much love across the miles.

Bobbie Mason

June 28, 2022

Love you Mark. My heart breaks at your loss. Together you made a perfect couple.

Elmer

June 28, 2022

Mark our deepest sympathies. Bobbie And I loved Paul from the get go. We´re glad you found and had him for all those years. All too short Though. Love Elmer and Bobbie.

Elmer

June 28, 2022

Mark our deepest sympathies. Bobbie And I loved Paul from the get go. We´re glad you found and had him for all those years. All too short Though. Love Elmer and Bobbie.

Lori Bartok

June 19, 2022

Oh Mark. My heart breaks for you. I am so very sorry. My earliest memory of Paul was at Wes and Cathy's wedding. Paul and I snuck into another wedding reception that was happening at the same venue and danced! I knew he was a keeper and I was so happy for you. Sending loads of love. Please check out the group that saved me when Duane died. www.soaringspirits.org - lots of resources and support.

Pamela Cortelyou and Helen McKenna

June 19, 2022

Paul was a wonderful person. Our condolences to Mark. We have three wonderful pieces of his art. Paul and Mark created an artful beautiful home and welcomed many friends.

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