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MARTIN FENTON Obituary

FENTON--Martin Jr. Martin Fenton Jr., a visionary whose career ranged from oil and gas exploration to large-scale real estate development and who later helped pioneer modern senior living communities, died on March 6, 2026. He was 90 years old. Over a career spanning more than six decades, Martin Fenton reflected a distinctly American story: a man shaped by the optimism and prosperity of post WWII America who believed that curiosity, persistence and hard work could turn opportunity into lasting enterprise. From negotiating gas leases with farmers in California to helping create waterfront communities and later building residential environments for older Americans, his life followed the arc of a generation that came of age believing the future could be built by those willing to work hard, remain open to learning and adapt through experience. In 1987, Martin co-founded Senior Resource Group, a company dedicated to developing and operating residential communities for older adults. Martin Fenton's path to senior housing was anything but direct. Born in New York to Martin and Katharine Fenton in 1935 during the depths of the Great Depression, he spent his childhood during the upheaval of WWII and came of age during the remarkable economic expansion that followed. He attended St. Mark's School in Southborough, Massachusetts, graduating second in his class, and later attended Yale University, where he was a member of the Yale Glee Club, the Whiffenpoofs, and the Phelps Association. Martin's education was demanding and formative. Every one of his teachers, coaches, and classmates was a mentor. He gave back by serving on the Board of Trustees of the John Thomas Dye School in Los Angeles, California and is a trustee emeritus of the St. Mark's School. After Yale, Martin was a US Army veteran who served as a chaplain's assistant. This experience deepened his curiosity about the human condition and helped nurture his gifts as both a poet and a writer. Martin's professional experience started as the self-described "executive peon" with the four founding members of Christiana Companies, Inc., an oil and gas company that evolved into a real estate development company. What he lacked in technical training he made up for with an inquisitive mind, confidence, and a willingness to accept and explore any challenge. He took on every task, took every opportunity for exposure to people, ideas, problems, and solutions. Martin rose through the ranks, in part, because of his visionary leadership ultimately becoming the chairman of Christiana Companies, Inc. By the 1980s, Martin recognized a powerful demographic shift: the rapid growth of the nation's senior population and the need for residential environments that combined independence with support and social connection. Under his leadership, Senior Resource Group became an industry leader in senior retirement living with its long-term and multi-disciplinary approach to senior living. The core philosophy remains to prioritize the quality of life for residents, families, and team members. Martin was a celebrated contributor to the American Senior Housing Association. Friends and colleagues described Martin as inquisitive, often energetic and quietly reflective, a leader who believed perseverance mattered more than brilliance and that success came from paying attention, asking questions and showing up every day ready to learn. He often said that his greatest advantage had been growing up in an era when Americans believed effort mattered and the future could be shaped by those willing to build it. Martin contributed his many skills as a director of the American Funds for over 25 years, as an active member of YPO, as well as to the US Seniors Golf Association (USSGA) and ProKids Golf in San Diego, California. Martin was immensely proud of his family. He shared 38 years of marriage with his beloved wife Casey Griffith Fenton. He was devoted to his five children, Caroline Fenton Dewey, Martin Fenton III, Lauren Fenton Sharrow (Chris), Walker Fenton (Michelle), Caroline Griffith Hobbs and 12 grandchildren, each of whom he followed with deep interest and affection. Martin is survived by his wife, children, and grandchildren, his brother Wendell Fenton (Jeannie) and his sisters Edith Fenton Tuckerman, and Prudence Fenton. He was preceded in death by his mother Katharine Douglas Fenton, father Martin Fenton Sr., sister Alice Fenton Kuhns, and brother-in-law Roger W. Tuckerman. Martin's many joys included golf, beach walking, fishing, sailing, singing, and enjoying time with family and friends in La Jolla, Carmel, the Adirondacks, and Bridgehampton. The best moments often came during the quiet hours before or after the day's activities when he could sit, talk, laugh, and truly check in with those around him. Martin had a gift for laughter and for making others feel special simply by being in his presence. Friends and family alike remember his warmth, his kindness and effortless way he gathered people together, turning ordinary moments into lasting memories. Martin Fenton truly was a gentle man -- thoughtful, gracious, and deeply interested in others. For him, the measure of a life was how one fostered potential in others. And by that measure, Martin Fenton's legacy endures through his family, his friends, and in the many lives he touched through the communities he created. Memorial contributions can be made to: https://prokidsgolf.org/ general-donations

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Published by New York Times on Mar. 22, 2026.

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Gail Danzig Fore

March 23, 2026

Martin meant a lot to my late father, Dr. Elliott R. Danzig. In case it is possible to reconnect after life, I think that would be grand.

Jack Olive

March 22, 2026

Graciously shared a weekend of golf in Monterey to fulfill a dream of a Navy Pilot that doesn´t run in those circles. Smart, kind, and generous to an almost stranger. What a wonderful man!

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