DONALD MANGO Obituary

Don was a great teacher at Columbia University.

Aloha, our heartfelt condolences go to Pat and Alex and Don's family. Don will be greatly missed by all of Pat's family as well. When Pat's mother, Rose passed on 2015, Don did not seem well, although he was dressed impeccably, of course, with a suit and tie at Rose's wake. Alerted, Steve watched Don with concern, until Don suddenly left the room visibly upset. Steve found Don in the outside hallway, sobbing, and wailing uncontrollably. Steve immediately embraced Don very closely and spoke softly in a calm tone in Don's ear, "Don, I love you for loving my mother so dearly as you are demonstrating now. It's ok, Mom is in a better place after all the suffering she went through." Now Don is with Rose. We share in Pat and Alex's sadness.

Don was one of the wonderful men we have ever known. Our love is with Pat and Alex.

Steve Laracuente (Pat's older brother)
Margaret Laracuente, sister-in-law

I worked with Don for only a short time but he became a close friend and kindred spirit. Always warm, deprecating, blazingly brilliant and hilarious, Don was a true joy to know and to consider as a friend. With sincere condolences to the Mango family on this tragic loss.

I only worked with Don for 2 years while at American Re, but he had a lasting impact on me as a result of his brilliance, sharp wit, self-deprecating sense of humor, approachability and enthusiasm for life. When running into him at conferences in the years after leaving Am Re, I was pleasantly surprised at how he greeted me so enthusiastically - but that was his nature. I will always remember his engaging presentations and how enthusiastic he was about his subject matter. He was an absolute rock-star in the actuarial field yet still found the time to engage with people on a personal level. I am saddened at the thought of his passing. My heartfelt condolences to his family and friends.

Don was an absolute giant. Absolutely brilliant, but chose to shine his light on so many people. We all feel the loss, but none more than his family and friends. My very sincere condolences to you.

My condolences go out to Pat and the Mango family. Don has touched many hearts and minds. In addition to his brilliance, he was a true friend. I will always be grateful for his advice, wisdom and loyal support. I will miss him, but I will never forget him. Rest In Peace my friend.

I had the privilege of working with Don twice. That Emerson quote in the obituary is absolutely true. Among a lot of very smart people, Don stood out head and shoulders above. But in contrast to many brilliant people, he made the audience smarter and more informed at the end, rather than feeling dumber in comparison. Our industry as a whole, and many of us individually, are better off because he worked with us. He will be missed. God bless his family at this time.

I offer my sincerest condolences to Don's family and friends. I didn't know him personally, but through his written and oral presentations of various actuarial topics, I can say that he represented our shared profession as few others have. It seems that he thought deeply about the matter at hand, pushing beyond widely-held understandings and encouraging new thought from his peers. His observations helped to shaped my own thinking on a number of risk-related matters, and I consider myself a beneficiary of his professional contributions. I know that you all will miss him greatly.

I had the chance to collaborate with Don off and on for 20 years in education and innovation (some of it admittedly disruptive). I will miss the chances to get together for an hour and explore deep thoughts and laugh until my chest hurt often in the same moment. A bright, dynamic mind and a bigger heart. Gone far too soon.

My sincere condolences on this terrible loss. Don was a bright and thoughtful person and I learned a lot from our conversations during the time we worked together. He will be remembered fondly and missed by many.

Don, you will be missed!

My sincere condolences to the family. As my boss he was always supportive and encouraging, but most important a good friend. We will miss him.

Absolutely staggered to learn of Don´s passing. Though many years have passed, the connection as `family´ remains deeply held in my heart, as do the memories of lively times and travel, and the compassionate care he offered during life´s most trying times. The universe has lost a beautiful soul and intellect. Hopes for healing to Patricia and Alex, and all who loved this wonderful man.

My heart is broken beyond words at the loss of my brilliant, funny, sweet "baby" brother. We had our ups and downs, but you were ALWAYS in my heart and I'll miss you so very, very much.

Rest in peace, Don my friend. Sincere condolences to Don´s family. God bless you.

Take it easy Donnie.. Love you. Love to Patricia and Alex. Uncle Kenny.

What an amazing human being. I wish we had gotten more time with you. You will be missed very much. Love, Cousin Carole in CT

Don you were the BEST ever Boss, you taught me so much about working corporate that´s for sure. You´re kind heart, endless time you gave me when I needed to vent, you taught me so much. I hold a very high respect, honor & love for you and your family. You will always be cherished in my heart. I will always be MIC. Sending hugs & love to Patty & Alex.

My deepest condolences to family and friends. Don, I am in your debt for your impact on my career. Bless and rest in peace.

My condolences on this terrible loss. I learned so much from Don, a gracious, bright, and generous colleague. Only wish I could have known him longer. RIP

As a close friend from his Houston days, I am saddened that Donny is no longer out in the world sharing his life force with those who were privileged to know him.

My condolences goes to his family. Don´s spirit will be missed but never forgotten.

My sincere condolences go out to Pat and Don's family and friends. Don was a great person and actuary. He will always be remembered and I will truly miss him.

My condolences to the family. The actuarial profession lost one of its greats.