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Lyn FLEMING Obituary

It is with deep sadness, we announce the passing of Lynley (Lyn) Gay Fleming, age 62, of Nelson. Her light was taken from the world, and the lives of all who knew her, on January 1, 2025. Beloved wife of Bryn, mother of Rayna and Aren, daughter of Ray and Colleen, and sister of Woody, Carol, and Jo. Our sincere gratitude to the staff at Nelson Hospital, whose heroic efforts enabled Lyn's family to be present in her final moments. A private ceremony will be held at 1.00pm on January 16 at the Trafalgar Centre, honouring Lyn's life and her service to both Police and the community. The funeral will be livestreamed online and screened at Nelson Cathedral for those who wish to pay their respects. Messages to Lyn's family c/- 164 Tahunanui Drive, Nelson 7011 or online at www.shoneandshirley.co.nz


Published by Nelson Mail on Jan. 12, 2025.

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for Lyn FLEMING

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Sally Quickfall

February 9, 2025

I remember fond memories of Lyn as we started our families together, meeting in our antenatal class at North Shore hospital. Then renewing our friendship as we both ended up in Nelson and Rayna and Sarah attending Nelson Girls together. Lyn roped me in to coach a Year 10 netball team, she was a good mentor and a lovely person. Ive been bereft thinking that your life ended this way. I will fossick through early photos for Rayna. My love and thoughts with all your family.
Rest easy Lyn, my goodness you deserve it. XX

Vicki Harrison Jones

January 23, 2025

My memories of Lyn (Lynley, my mum and dad always called her) are from the Murchison Swimming Club days - I was in awe of her and can recall so clearly her quiet determination and effortless- seeming swimming style. So Powerful then and later in life. To Colleen and Ray, Carol, Michael, Jo and families and Lyn´s own family I send deepest sympathy and aroha.

Wendy Tuara

January 18, 2025

Our sincere condolences to Bryn, your beautiful children, Lyn´s parents, siblings, family & friends.
Bryn´s Grandmother Norah is my Grandmother Katie´s sister.

Alison McAlpine

January 17, 2025

To Rayna, Colleen, Ray, Carol and other family members.
Like thousands of people I have been very sad and angry at Lynley's beautiful life being taken.
Much as I wanted to visit you all the timing is too raw for me currently as my son died of cancer just a year ago.
I managed to go to the Cathedral yesterday....and vividly recalled that little 5 and 6 year old who displayed all the characteristics that have been lauded over the past two sad weeks.
Even at that age she was a trouper...looked out for Carol like a little mother....her integrity and kindness very evident.
I have very fond memories of you all...and share your grief.
With love...Alison

Barb & Jeff Bissell

January 17, 2025

Our deepest condolences go out to the whole family.
RIP Lyn

India briggs

January 17, 2025

Stand down SENSGT we'll take it from here. Condolences to all the family x

Tony Hawthorn

January 17, 2025

To Ray, Colleen and family our sincere condolences on Lin's passing.

Regards,
The Hawthorn family

Lynn Hilden

January 16, 2025

So very sorry that you were struck down in the prime of life. Thank you for your service to the community Lyn.

Sue Boswell

January 16, 2025

Kia Bryn Aren Rayna and your whanau, so sad for the loss of your lovely Lyn. I respected and bonded with Lyn over our shared love of family, profession the hills and netball. Aroharanui Sue Boswell

Rodger hedley

January 16, 2025

I didn't know you lyn , but I thank you for your service , signed , an ordinary kiwi ,who's greatfull for what police do for us every day , arohanui, Rodger Hedley ,Napier

Margie Etherington (Harrold)

January 16, 2025

Such fond memories of Lynley Fleming from Innes House days and Marlborough Girls College. The service was amazing , streamed to Nelson Cathedral, thankful to be there to represent also by son Sam serving in Chch, AOS. Much love to all the family and respect increase in our communities xx

Tania Brooks

January 16, 2025

To Ray, Colleen and family, my love and thoughts are with you all.
Tania Brooks

Joanne and Gary Clayton

January 16, 2025

Ray, Colleen and family our thoughts are with you all at this sad time.
RIP Lynley Fleming. Thank you for all your years of service.

Michelle

January 16, 2025

Okioki i roto i te whare o Te Atua. Moe mai e te Mareikura. Did not know Lyn, watched the service. So sorry for the whanau and their loss. I have nephew and nieces in the Police and we hope every day they are safe.
Rest in Heavenly Peace.

Matt & Kellie Cockerell

January 16, 2025

Our condolences to Bryn and family.
You will missed more than we can ever imagine.

Rubianne Horgan ( nee Gibson) & Kerry Horgan

January 16, 2025

Deepest Sympathy to Ray & Colleen and extended families our Prayers & love to you all

Helen Ricketts

January 16, 2025

Thoughts and prayers with you all at this very sad time. Lyn was a beautiful and loving woman, and will be missed by a lot of people.

Allyson Ealam

January 16, 2025

Dearest Lyn we feel so very privileged to have known and worked with you. You were a exceptional woman with many great talents. Lyn thanks so much for the laughs we shared on our leadership workshops we did together, the advice you gave me and guidance for PSU you were a mentor to me Lyn .a beautiful woman taken far too soon. Sending love to Bryn and the family. Our hearts are broken RIP Lyn love Ally, Phil and Thomas Ealam

Rowena Oliver

January 16, 2025

Mum and I would like to pass on our to the family of Lynn how sorry we are for your lost. Lynn was years ago to be part of our family unfortunately it was not be. But she was remembered with kindness. Her family was very welcoming to us all. Rest in Peace Lynn. From Lorraine and Rowena Oliver.

Kerry Robbins

January 15, 2025

Always remember Lynley coming down to Marlborough girls and boarding at Innes House in Blenheim in our sixth form year,remember her as very focused and mature for our ages, always had time for everybody and fitted in super well with her awesome personality, was a great student both academically and sporting wise , so sad to lose such a wonderful human. RIP.

Barry Thomson

January 15, 2025

"TO BE HAPPY MEANS TO BE FREE AND TO BE FREE MEANS TO BE BRAVE, NOT SHYING AWAY FROM THE THREAT"
- Pericles

May your courage and dedication to your job and Aotearoa New Zealand be rewarded without delay and forever brought to mind whenever and wherever decent people congregate and recall your kind deeds of altruism.
Rest in peace Senior Lyn, nestled in the down of the Huia and the hearts of your loving family, friends and community.

With deepest sympathy, respect and admiration,
Barry Thomson
Christchurch.

Claire Lovejoy

January 15, 2025

To Ray, Colleen and family. Sending heartfelt condolences. Claire Lovejoy (nee Gibson)

Darryl Cameron

January 15, 2025

Bryn and family,
So sad to hear of the passing on Lyn. No words will ever accurately reflect this great loss, nor the pain and grief you are going through.
Darryl

Laurelle Rogers nee Taylor

January 15, 2025

Ray and Colleen, I cannot express my feelings for the lose of Lynley. I pray that you are surrounded by love.

Judith ann tipuna

January 15, 2025

My husband and I are sadden by the death of lyn blessings to the families

Diane and Lyndon Chandler

January 15, 2025

Beyond words and sorrow. Our families lives crossed with Bryn, Lyn and Rayna on the football fields, netball courts and community events. Every good person is grieving and standing alongside you. Treasure the wonderful memories and love.

Liz & Ken Trusler

January 14, 2025

To Colleen & Ray
Thinking of you at this very sad time.
Liz & Ken Trusler

Cindy and Hugh Pearless

January 14, 2025

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. Our thoughts have been with Lyn's husband, children ,Colleen and Ray and Lyn's siblings.

Marion Maxwell (Mairs from Westport)

January 14, 2025

To the Fleming Family. I used to run into Lyn when she fueled up at BP. The last conversation I had with her after a laugh. Was Merry Christmas and Have an even better New Year. Hope there's not too many idiots out there. She said Its the baddies who keep us in a job. lol. I said ok, you can have a couple of idiots then, but nothing serious. Told her to be safe out there. She said Always turned around and smiled. I will never forget that. Lyn had time for everyone. Children, teenages, adults .. She always talked and as you know, she did alot she didn't even know she had done,. By taking time to talk with those around her and helping others. My heart really goes out to you all. xx. Rest In Paradise Lyn xx

John and Mary Sturgeon

January 14, 2025

To the Fleming family and extended family members,
It is with great sadness that we learned of the tragic passing of Lyn. Please accept and convey to all, our very deepest sympathy in your sad loss.
We know that the days ahead won't be easy, and that you will miss her very much - but may you find comfort in each other and the memories you share.
Sincerely: John and Mary Sturgeon (Friend)

Malcolm Whale

January 14, 2025

My deepest lost of a good friend and family

Claire and Steve Oxnam

January 13, 2025

Our thoughts are with you. I remember Lynley well from school days in Murchison and after when she came to Mount Ella when we were shearing. I'm not sure how she was connected but possibly was there with one of the shearers. Our hearts go out to you all. Colleen and Ray, we know exactly how you feel.

Wendy Pahl nee Curtis

January 13, 2025

Many many memories of Lynley and Carol as Lone Guides together. My deepest sympathies to you all. Xx

January 13, 2025

Dedicated to Senior Sergeant Lynley Fleming: from the Nursing Class of 1980, Greymouth Hospital.
We trained and worked with Lynley. She has been our dear friend for 45 years. As well as being an exceptional police officer, she was an outstanding, compassionate and professional Registered Nurse. Lynley touched the hearts and lives of so many. She was always the best of the best. We miss you dear friend.

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